心中的日月

忽然和姐妹談起這個問題，那我就在這討論討論。自己沒事做上網查了查，也有不少女人討論這個話題！在現在的社會什麽男人都有，《沒能力的》 -找個有能力的女人，可以是在事業上幫得上忙的或是直接的女人負責大部分的家庭開銷。那就可以輕輕松松過日子。《有能力的》-一是個超級大男人，他說一你不能說二動不動對你大小聲要看他臉色過日子。二是找個天使臉孔魔鬼身材的女人來‘玩弄’一番。

有的有理沒理，不停的找尋獵物，找到了好幾個才決定要選哪個。反正男的不會吃虧啦！他們可以完全不理會女孩是否認真對待那份感情嗎？可以突然出現，突然消失！編一大堆有的沒的理由敷衍一下說感情變了/對你沒有當初的感覺/我們的目標不一緻。。。（其實玩膩了）
就拍拍屁股走人。還真輕鬆啊！

其餘有的認爲你是他的女人了（男女朋友/夫妻），那些以前的一切貼心就可以完全的免了。起碼也不要變的太多吧！基本的貼心和關心也需要啊！還有女人需要的基本- 《寧聼》
寧聼她的訴苦，寧聼她的需要，分享她的快樂。下次再分享如何滿足你的另一半。

當然也不可以說所有的男人都不可靠，我身邊也有不少好朋友也是個可靠的男人。只不過少之極少了。而現在的女人也不簡單哦，我的‘前大嫂’就可以開班教課了啦！

以下和你分享兩個故事

1．律师要不得，嘴皮子厉害吵架估计会得理不让人，万一哪天离婚有办法一个子儿都不给你。会计师太会算计，身边做会计的男人哪个不精明小气。医生更危险，年轻女护士像蝴蝶一样围着转，艳遇少不了。生意人今天赚，明天赔，陪着他胆战心惊，而且没准他还见利忘义。离过婚的男人很可疑，一定有严重问题才被前妻退货。于是她的目标锁定相貌端正，历史清白，个性平和，收入稳定但不会暴发的理工类男士。

2．一个乞丐敲敲车窗说：给我点钱． 先生看了下，说：给你抽支烟吧． 乞丐说：我不抽烟，给我点钱． 先生说：我车上有啤酒，给你喝瓶酒吧． 乞丐说：我不喝酒，给我点钱． 先生说：那这样，我带你到麻将馆，我出钱，你来赌，赢了是你的． 乞丐说：我不赌钱，给我点钱． 先生说：我带你去桑拿房享受“一条龙服务”，费用我全包。 乞丐说：我不嫖妓，给我点钱． 先生说：那你上车吧，我带你回去，让我老婆看看：一个不抽烟、不喝酒、不赌钱、不嫖妓的好男人能混成啥样! （一看就知道是男人想的故事哦）

Suddenly feel like wanna go shopping... Since all my dears not free then nvm, i go midvalley shop alone.. Actually i like to shop alone coz every time i shop alone and end up my wallet empty. hahaha.. spent all the $$$ very shiok! but of course i'm not doing it all the time la..

Today i have to buy few things so have to go midvalley.
1. Buy some clothes - bored of wearing the same cloth.
2. Buy Shoe/sandal
3. Buy birthday present for Le ann
4. Christmas present for Ryan & Le ann.
5. Christmas present for family.

Huh.. too much things to buy right... Finally bought few tops in Nichii, Lego for Ryan at Toy'r us. small present for family also... bought necklace in eclipse

I've took few photos in midvalley, their christmas decoration are sooo nice.
Share with u all.

My favourite photo of the day. hahaha.. nice?


Midvalley Xmas decor

Finally arrange time to dinner with lennie & Wey foong, but too bad Pay cannot join us. Suppose we need to hav dinner during WF birthday.. but few of us quite bz and keep delaying. Then end up hav dinner at Hanazen - Jaya 1, Have a quick dinner (as someone make a reservation and we have to leave the table before 8pm). Hehehe.. then after dinner still very early then we plan to go alamanda (niu Che Siu) walk walk as me and WF never go b4. I found out there are some shops selling very special decoration things, thought to buy some fore kiddyplace window display. but those decoration quite bulky..=( end up i just bought 2 small stool. haha.

After shopping then of course we go 'fullhouse' yam cha.. The main reason we went there!! haha.. that's really special cafe.. love it much! =) Dears.. we must go there once to have some shoots ya.. =) Now i show u all some photos we took there..

Saw this news in the newspaper this morning. Really feel unbelieavable. Then i send sms to all my dears which got watch the 星光三班 show. Such a nice and young girl (23 yr old) suicide, wat a waste!

Waiting for the full moon photos for sooooo long and this mummy not free to send to us. Now i have to copy from CY's blog.


Kim went off to China so this kei ma team not complete yet..


Luckily bringing my camera along.. at least have this photo with me. =)

7/11 Baby sheyanne full moon dinner held in Pudu Hei Loi Tang Restaurant! Yes.. is hei loi tang again.. hahaha..Since the last time i meet sheyanne was in the hospital, after that then i fly off to China and busy with my baby fair preparation then 10 days fair. Before that sick for weeks also.. so never go visit shei wei at all. BUT... I've bought quite a lot of clothes for my little kei lui.. hehehe.. Taking care of baby was really not an easy job.. Shei wei!! Slowly learn lo.. hahaha.. 1st time mother must be a bit kelam kabut ga la.. next time you must be the one who teach us. hahaha...!~

Wishing baby sheyanne growing with healthy, happy forever..(shei wei said - " of course better with wealth also la.. " hehehehe...

- 4 "Kai Ma" & the little princess!

These days i've been delaying to update my blog. hahaha... always Ching yee & shei Wei who be the first to post the blog. But this time... I'M THE FIRST!! hohohoho...

OMG!! My first Kai lui delivered at Pantai Hospital today at 4.33pm !! I received sms from shei wei around 1 something said she is in the hospital now waiting to give birth.. huh.. so suprise, how come so early? as the due date is end of Oct. Anyway i thought it should takes quite a while for her to deliver the first baby, i thought the baby may out at night time / midnight, but 6 something received Chew sms saying that the baby deliver already n very healthy... We all are sooo excited and kim said she wanna cry tim.. hahahahaha ~~~~!!! Then we meet shei wei and her little princess ard 8pm. of course i brought my camera and take some shoots!! How can we miss this memorable shooting!!

Weyfoong said Mamma Mia show is good.. So today went to Sunway Pyramid to watch with goh..The show not bad.. =) but 1 time is enough..haha. I found out TGV seats really Ma Ma Dei.. GSC much much better. Sit until backache.. both of us also feel wanna hav a nice massage.. =) After Movie we went to hav early dinner.. ard 5pm. Dinner @ asia avenue - RM Cafe. The food is ok lo.so so..not expensive.




Nasi Lemak with Rendang Chicken..


Pulut Hitam with ice cream..


Pai Tee


Curi curi take his photo.. hmm.. this is the 1st time i take his photo!!

Yayaya.. took below photos for my dear CY.. Saw this shop in Pyramid, is a Korea Brand skincare & cosmetic shop.. So pinky one..I know Cy will sure like it. The Shop name is Etude House.





After Pyramid fetch goh back near pyramid..as he bought quite a lot of groceries in Jusco Supermarket..then visit his new rented home.. walk around and chat for while in the playground.. (long time never enjoy the windy night time at playground).. feel comfortable.

Planning to have dinner at Latest Recipe with Lennie & edmond all for weeks. Just day during Puasa period the dishes not really good. So told edmond better we go after Raya. As He just join Starwoord Privilege (RM 699) 4.10.2008 is Fion bday.. So we plan to celebrate with her in Latest Recipe. Wish she enjoy the night with just 3 of us.. haha..(as others not cannot make it)


Photo with Star of today!! Birthday Girl Fion ~


Special Dessert which i prepare for Fion ~ hahahaha... Wish to have some?


Me & lennie ~


Me Special Made Ice-Cream.. Yummy ~~!!

Non Member Price - RM108.
Member - 50% discount !!

25th i'll had this buffet again with all my lovely sistaz..for WF bday!

Haha.. Another couple of my friend getting married!! I believe red bomb coming more and more soon..=)


Date: 28th September 2008
Venue: Noble Banquet @ Jln Imbi

We reach there around 7.30pm and the dinner start around 8.30pm. Meet a lot of SSG friends and really scratching head reminding the name of each friend.. haha.... As most of them in other classes and can't really remember their names. Our table with Ching Yee, Shei wei & Chew, Weyfoong, Me, Danny & Grace, Alex & his gf. 9 of us... haha.. the funny is we gals just meet few days ago and still a lot to talk & laugh with.. totally din really chat with alex & danny..=) soooo bad ~ Photo shooting goes before the dinner start.. and some after dinner.

~ Yes!! 5 of us AGAIN ~ =P

~ Photo with the Groom before the dinner start

Yesterday chat with WF in MSN, suddenly talk bout marriage. hahha... then i ask her wat is her dream wedding. She said she wish to have live band and choir on her wedding dinner. =) Sound like live show ya.... hahha. And Kim seem to be same as me.

I wish to have a small wedding party (but need to spent a lot also) at garden. Decorate with pink, purple & white flowers, for all my dears to take nice nice photos. hahaha... Hold on evening ard 4pm (can take flowers shot) and night time can have some special lighting. Not too much tables, around 10-15 tables with just relatives, families and beloved friends. Play with some soft/ new age musics... haha ~ I online saw some photos very nice.. share with you all.





Day time - Flower decoration


Night time - lighting

** Anyway, this is just my dream. Who knows my partner want 'Gao Dai Hui' like what WF said. haha. Or i also accept honeymood only without 'Bai Jiu'. But of course better to go far a bit to have long vacation la... as we have save some $$ on wedding dinner ma. haha. I think i've think tooooo MUCH!! Hahah... Dun la like that.. Dream also cannot meh?

I saw some cafe/ restaurant did offer Garden Wedding. Like:

1. Ciao Caffe Ristorante's ( nice decor) but with italian menu
2. Top Hat, Jalan Kia Peng (Not that nice)
3. Cafe Ceylon Hill
4. Bonton
5. Passion Road (http://passionroad.com.my)
6. Courtyard Garden, Damansara Heights

For those who interested to have your own garden wedding, can refer to above cafe. =)
So... What is your dream wedding? Mind to share with us? Leave me a comment k.

Date: 6/9/2008
Venue: Bandar Sungai Long

Seem i'm the last one who post this up.. getting more and more lazy these days.. hahaha.. So i can just brief through as all of my dears already post up in their blog.=)

I woke up around 8 something and follow my mum to morning market buy some chicken wings, Sotong, fish, corn.. Most of the food i've bought in Tesco day before. After market i prepare all the food ( of course with my maid also), wrap sotong & fish in sambal in aluminium foil to bake, cucuk all the food with colorful veges (brocoli, cherry tomatos, cucumber..) Is fun to playing around with it actually, at least haven eat also feel the delicious.. and i believe all my dears will like the outlook . hahaha.


I like the bacon + 'Gam Zham Gu'.. although taste so so.. but is special. 1st time i do this. most of the food taste good, except the taiwan sausage and cocktail sausage (forget to take out the outer skin). I totally do not know need to remove the skin. =) Sorry ya! i learn a lesson!


I do not know how to heat up the BBQ tray with all the charcoal.. haha, so Justin, CY and my bro gao dim that!


See how enjoy we are.. hahaha... so happy ~ But too bad, little rain all night~


Photo taken in the garden with pregnant lady. haha..


With all the food and dessert, we spent about RM27/ person. hmm.. expensive?? But i believe that is something $$ cannot buy. The laugh, the frienship, the sincerity...

Received sms from Kenny yesterday morning asking where am i going after that.. Then i said i'm free after 3pm+. Then he said.. Then let's go dating.. (of course he is joking..) He likes to play around with me like that...Used to it! He plan to go walk walk in Sg Wang but then i worry road closed at KL and super jam ( everyone going to Kl to count down). Then we change to 1 Utama. We reach 1 Utama around 5pm and we had our early dinner - coz SuPeR HunGry! ~~ at Oriental Cravings! Kim brought be there before and the Claypot Lou Shee Fun taste not bad.. So i brought Kenny to try it.




He ordered Roast Pork Curry Laksa.. He Complain not hot enough.. haha!


For me.. Of course Claypot Lou Shee Fen la~~ Overall taste alright, Kenny said if add some veges will be adding stars for it. =)


- Concourse Mid-Autumn Display at 1 utama.

After dinner then we shopping... huh.. shop till tired la.. walk till 9 something, finally he boughts some clothes n pants at Seeds and i bought yoga pants at FOS, and Chanel Foundation refill..=) Ai yah.. somemore i wish to buy Chanel fragrance - Coco Mademoiselle.. smell good. But didn't buy.. thought can buy in Duty Free Shop on October.

Pass few days feel like using my new camera to have some shoot... thinking what should i shoot... ok! let's be my sweet room!!

~ Room Table ~

Sitting here for few hours a day... blogging, online, msn, sufting, moviesssss, snacking.. hahaha..


Love the Ferris Wheel, bought in midvalley years back. Photo frame.. with family photos.

~ Relaxing ~

Love to light up aroma oil / incense sticks... i like Rose and Lavender. Recently using Crabtree & evelyn Rosewater Environmental Oil.. Love this smell so much!

~ Bath Room ~

Decorated with some teddy bears and also have a small shelf, with photo frame which bought in Phuket

~ Dreaming land ~

Love to buy some nice nice crib sheet also, feel so happy with it. Wat i do on this dream land? SMS b4 sleep, Chatting on phone with WF, nnnnnn sleep lo!

~ New decor ~

I just remove my 2007 & 2008 customade photo frame and change it to framed moo cards. I got all this cards from all around the world.. Japan, Australia, USA, England, etc....Love all of them.